Friday, July 31, 2009

My birth story

I am finally getting around to writing our first post about Ava. Sorry to be so late in coming - everyone has been asking for pictures. But it's amazing how little you can accomplish in a day when you only have 1-2 hour blocks of time. Lucky for me my mom is here and has been such an amazing support and fabulous picture taker :)

Ava Mae's journey into this world:

On the morning of the 22nd I awoke with bad cramps in my back, kind of like menstral pain. I knew this was a sign of labor and was excited! I had two bouts of false labor the day before, so I was ready! (not to mention the fact that I was already 4 days overdue). Erik had to go into a meeting for a bit in the morning so I sat in the tub. After 7 hours I still hadn't felt any real "contractions" and I was getting a little annoyed. I was in pain from the back labor as I later realized it was but didn't seem to be progressing. I talked to one of my friends on the phone who asked if my water had broke and I confidently replied, "No, not yet!" Well, little did I know that my water HAD broken (it was a trickle, apparently that counts) and only after I called the midwife to confirm that my back pain was early labor did she advise me to come into the hospital. Erik and I looked at each other like, "Okay, here is the first false trip." When we got there however, I was informed that yes, my water had broken and no, that I would not be going home. Holy cow, this was real.

My midwife said I needed to go into good labor within the next 2-3 hours otherwise they would need to start Pitocin because I tested positive for GroupB Strep. I was not very happy about that as I was aiming for a natural, non medicated birth and I knew Pitocin would make that harder. Well, good for Ava, within 30 minutes I was in good labor! Surprise! Within an hour my contractions were strong and only about 2-3 minutes apart. The hard part was the back labor - it was seriously intense! Has anyone else experienced it? I can't believe how strong it was. I felt hardly anything in my belly and mostly ALL in my back. After trying different positions, getting in the tub and dialating past a 5 (this was an hour after they checked me last), I decided to get a epidural. The back labor was more than I could handle. I had to practically grit my teeth for the next 40 minutes until I actually got the epidural. And then it only worked on one side. Finally it worked on both sides of my back but then the baby had decended enough that I could feel it down low. My mom just happened to be coming in town that night and weaseled onto an early connection so she arrived an hour and a half before we expected her. Good thng too because I was then 9.5cm! The midwife wanted me to wait a bit before I pushed, but Ava had a plan of her own. Soon I was able to feel her head! After 50 minutes of pushing, Ava was born!

Her stats:
Date - July 23rd
Time - 12:22am
Weight - 9 lbs 9 oz
Length - 21.5 inches

My mom and Erik were both surprised at how big she was, especially after the admitting midwife guessed she'd be a little over 8 lbs!! Here are some pictures of the cutie:


Right after she was born


Wow what a chunker! (I still can't believe I birthed that thing!)


With Grandpa Walker in the hospital


My favorite position with Daddy


Superwoman!


Very content with Grammie

We ended up having to stay at the hospital an extra two days because she gave us a little scare at her discharge/ final check up. While the nurse was holding her, her oxygen saturation levels dropped and she turned blue. For the next two days the kept her in a level 2 nursery hooked up to monitors and anIV. That was not fun to watch. The doctors cycled between thinking it was an infection to thinking that she was just so big and could make the newborn "transition" as well or as fast. Luckily everything looked good and we were able to leave after two days. She still has a heart murmur (which may be completely normal and benign or could be more serious) so we have to go get an echocardiogram in a week and a half.

Other than that, Ava is such a sweet baby and a joy to have at home. She doesn't fuss much and spends a decent amount of time awake, alert and content. And the best part is, I think she might actually have blue eyes! Her eyes are very blue right now, not the typical blue/grey that most babies have. Here's to hoping!

19 comments:

  1. Britney- Congratulations!!!! She is such a cutie! I have been wondering for the past couple days about you. I'm happy to hear you have your angel. Keep the pictures coming.

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  2. BRIT!! Way to go girl!! :) I hear back labor is THE worst - I was lucky not to have any. Sooo cute how she loves to be curled up like that. Savor it, they grow up so fast. :( She is SO beautiful!!!!!!

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  3. GO GIRL!! She is SO ADORABLE! I LOVE THE picture of her with Erik with her little feet tucked up...precious. You guys getting any sleep yet? Being woken up all the time ROCKED MY WORLD. I hope you're handling that better than I did! I bet your mom was in HEAVEN being with you guys and the new little sweetie pie. Love you guys! Congrats!

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  4. I never had back labor, sorry to hear that you did. I have had two 9 pound babies so I know what that feels like. She is precious. Enjoy this time when she is sweet and little.

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  5. I am so glad that everything went well. She is so adorable. I didn't experience back labor, but my little guy was pushing on my sciatic nerve during contractions, so my leg shook like crazy and caused so much pain it pushed me into an epidural too. The pain in my belly for the contractions were nothing! Congrats and get as much sleep as you can while your mom is there. You will need the reserves!

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  6. How exciting! She is so beautiful and I LOVE her name. I was totally fascinated with the birth story! Keep posting pictures!

    We are thinking of you guys while we're here in Chile. Today we ate some of those amazing chocolate covered almonds that you brought back. Yum!

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  7. Congratulations! She is super cute and I love her name - Ava was on the top of my list (but not Dan's). :o) Good luck with all of your tests. Hopefully it will be nothing! :o)

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  8. Hey Britney! I love getting the scoop. She is such a doll! I didn't realize that she had to stay in the hospital 2 more days--I'm glad that she is okay. If it's any consolation, Derrick has a heart murmur as well and we know how he turned out. :)

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  9. Congratulations on a beautiful baby girl! Our Elizabeth had to get an echocardiogram for an early heart murmur and luckily it all turned out to be nothing. Enjoy your babe!

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  10. She is beautiful. I am so glad that it is all over for you. I hope you can get some rest.

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  11. Congratulations!! I had back labor too with Eliza, it definitely is not fun. Little Ava is so precious, hope everything continues to go well. Good luck with everything, They grow up way too quickly.

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  12. Congrats congrats congrats! I was so excited to get the picture when she was born. Way to hang in there--I can only imagine how awful back labor must be. And man, every pound of baby sure makes a difference! Good work! Love you!

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  13. YAY! Congrats Britt, what a cutie! She is huge! Wow!

    Sorry about the back labor I have heard it is way worse! Normal labor is already a beast...yikes! Don and I are very happy for your sweet little Ava :)

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  14. CONGRATS!! She is adorable!! Yeah, I had a back labor which is why I got an epidural at a 3 ha ha and it was amazing!! :) I'm glad everything turned out ok and that she made it here safe and sound! Enjoy every minute with her, they grow so fast!!

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  15. What a cutie! I seriously love birth stories- so thanks for sharing. I am sorry the birth didn't go as perfectly as you planned, but at least you both are healthy, right!

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  16. Congrats!!! Your Ava is adorable. I hope you are feeling well and adjusting to motherhood smoothly!

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  17. oh yay britney! way to go! i still want to call ya! im so happy for you an happy that ava is here safe and sound. what an accomplishment.
    love ya brit!

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  18. Congratulations!! She's so gorgeous!! I am so happy that you have your little angel with you. And I absolutely love the name. Can't wait to see more!

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  19. Wow, Brit...you're my hero! I can't even get a 7lb baby out. She is SO beautiful and I'm glad that she's been a good baby so far for you guys. Get some sleep!

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